[CA] What can you do when a judge denies more custody time without giving a reason?

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In California, judges are generally required to provide reasons for their decisions, especially in family law cases where the best interests of the child are at stake. Under California Family Code Section 3022.3, a court deciding custody must, upon the request of either party, issue a statement of decision explaining the factual and legal basis for its ruling, following the procedure and deadlines in California Code of Civil Procedure Section 632. If a judge fails to provide a rationale, it could be grounds for an appeal.

You might want to look into California Family Code Section 3020, which emphasizes the health, safety, and welfare of the child as the court’s primary concern, and California Family Code Section 3011, which lists the factors a court considers in determining the child’s best interest. Additionally, California Family Code Section 3080 establishes a presumption for joint custody if it is in the best interest of the child.

For specific case law, consulting with a family law attorney would be beneficial, as they can provide detailed insights and help you build a strong case for appeal based on precedent and statutory requirements.

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I just got out of family court, and for a third time the judge denied me overnights during the week with my daughter and dropping her off at school. The mother has 48 tardies this year. The judge did not give me a reason for denying me a third time. The only thing I can think of is that I have a four-bedroom home and four children. But I was told that as long as my daughter has her own bed, it doesn’t matter if she shares a room with her sister. I also explained to the judge that it’s an extra hardship to drop off my daughter at night three times a week, and I also get very little time with her those days. He only changed our 2-2-3 orders to week-to-week in the summer. I’m going to appeal, but I’m not sure what angle to use to persuade an appeal judge.

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Lexi
Lexi, Chatbot

I’m sorry to hear about the challenges you’re facing in family court regarding your daughter. Can you tell me more about the specific reasons the judge provided for denying your request for overnights?

He has not provided a reason.

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Lexi
Lexi, Chatbot

Have you gathered any evidence or documentation that supports your case, such as records of the mother’s tardies or any other relevant information?

Yes.

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Lexi
Lexi, Chatbot

Is there anything else the Family Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with your custody arrangement.

California case.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

Hey there! Welcome to our service. I’m Andres Sanchez, an attorney with many years of experience. Just so you are aware, our service is a legal information-only site. No attorney-client relationship is formed from our conversation.

I understand you’re dealing with a situation where the judge has denied you overnights with your daughter during the week, despite the mother’s tardiness record. Could you share more about any specific concerns or questions you have regarding this situation?

Besides, it’s just the luck of the judge and too much discretion.

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Unfair equal custody share time.

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Lexi
Lexi, Chatbot

I understand you’re feeling that the custody arrangement isn’t fair. Could you tell me more about the current custody order and how the time is divided between you and the other parent?

50/50 in the summer.

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And breaks.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

Thanks for sharing that. Could you let me know what the custody schedule looks like during the school year?

Alternating weekends, Friday 6 p.m. to Sunday 8 p.m., and Tuesday and Thursday 3 p.m. to 8 p.m.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

Based on your situation, there are several legal arguments and considerations in California that could potentially support your case:

Best Interests of the Child: In California, custody decisions are primarily based on the best interests of the child. This includes factors like the child’s health, safety, and welfare, as well as the nature and amount of contact with both parents.

Parental Involvement: Courts generally favor arrangements that allow both parents to be involved in the child’s life, provided it is in the child’s best interest. If one parent is consistently late or fails to meet responsibilities, it could be relevant to custody decisions.

Modification of Custody Orders: If there is a significant change in circumstances, such as a pattern of tardiness affecting the child’s education, it may be grounds for modifying the custody arrangement.

Judicial Discretion: Judges have broad discretion in custody cases, which means they can weigh various factors differently. However, they are required to provide a rationale for their decisions, especially if it significantly impacts the child’s welfare.

Let me know if you have any questions or clarifications.

My daughter would text and call her mom to ask if she could stay the night too, to the point that we stopped because the mother always said no. I told the judge that by the time I pick her up and we do dinner and homework, I have two hours with her. Plus, I’m widowed and have full custody of my four children, so meeting the mother at night three times a week creates extra stress.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

I understand how challenging this situation must be for you, especially with the added responsibilities you have. Let’s explore some potential steps you can take:

  1. Document Everything: Keep a detailed record of all interactions related to custody, including any instances where your daughter has expressed a desire to stay overnight and the mother’s responses. This documentation can be crucial if you decide to pursue a modification of the custody order.
  2. Gather Evidence of Hardship: Collect evidence that demonstrates the hardship caused by the current arrangement, such as the impact on your time with your daughter and the stress of managing drop-offs at night. This could include a log of your daily schedule, any communications with the mother, and statements from your children if appropriate.
  3. Consult with a Family Law Attorney: An attorney can help you understand the specific legal standards in California and how they apply to your case. They can also assist in preparing a strong case for modifying the custody order based on the best interests of your daughter.
  4. Consider Mediation: Before going back to court, you might explore mediation as a way to reach a more agreeable custody arrangement. A neutral third party can help facilitate discussions and potentially lead to a compromise that benefits everyone involved.
  5. File for a Custody Modification: If informal efforts don’t lead to a resolution, you may need to file a formal request to modify the custody order. This will require demonstrating a significant change in circumstances or that the current arrangement is not in the best interest of your daughter.

The judge provided no reason for denying me a second time, nor did he the first time.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

I am sorry to hear that.

We did all this. The mother and I have been to four mediations and never agreed. I have filed three modifications.

user

The only remedy is an appeal, in my opinion.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

I understand how frustrating this must be, especially after trying mediation and filing for modifications multiple times. It sounds like you’re considering an appeal as the next step, which can be a complex process.

I hope I was able to provide some guidance on your situation. If you have any other questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask.

Don’t hesitate to reach out whenever you need assistance!

I’ve done all your steps besides consulting with a lawyer.

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Yes, so what general case law or rights can I apply? You said the judge has to give reasons, and he didn’t.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

In California, judges are generally required to provide reasons for their decisions, especially in family law cases where the best interests of the child are at stake. Under California Family Code Section 3022.3, a court deciding custody must, upon the request of either party, issue a statement of decision explaining the factual and legal basis for its ruling, following the procedure and deadlines in California Code of Civil Procedure Section 632. If a judge fails to provide a rationale, it could be grounds for an appeal.

You might want to look into California Family Code Section 3020, which emphasizes the health, safety, and welfare of the child as the court’s primary concern, and California Family Code Section 3011, which lists the factors a court considers in determining the child’s best interest. Additionally, California Family Code Section 3080 establishes a presumption for joint custody if it is in the best interest of the child.

For specific case law, consulting with a family law attorney would be beneficial, as they can provide detailed insights and help you build a strong case for appeal based on precedent and statutory requirements.

So will it be a problem when I appeal, because in today’s hearing there was no court reporter? I was told to file a motion for reconsideration.

user

Also, should I draft a request for a statement of decision with the reconsideration motion?

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

Not having a court reporter can make it challenging to appeal because there won’t be an official transcript of the proceedings. However, you can still pursue a motion for reconsideration, which allows the judge to review the decision based on new evidence or legal arguments.

Filing a request for a statement of decision can be helpful, as it requires the judge to explain the reasoning behind their decision. This can provide clarity and potentially strengthen your case if you decide to appeal.

I read that I have to file the request for a statement before the hearing. Speaking with AI today, they said most likely the judge gave great weight to not changing my daughter’s pattern. My contention wasn’t that the schedule isn’t working, besides the judge not considering the mother’s 48 tardies a factor. It was equal parenting time. She does her homework, has dinner, and has a strong bond with me and her siblings. There would be less night transportation and more regularity instead of going back and forth between parents in one day, with less car travel time and rushing for her. For an appeal, I would have to find an abuse of discretion or legal errors, and with no transcript, issues are hard to raise on appeal. I don’t believe in taking a loss and just saying I don’t get my equal rights and responsibilities when there are no harmful issues in question, and my daughter wants to stay more. As she gets older, things change.

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

I understand your concerns about the appeal process, especially without a court transcript. Filing a request for a statement of decision is still a good step, as it can provide clarity on the judge’s reasoning and help identify any potential legal errors or abuse of discretion.

Without a transcript, it can be challenging to appeal based on procedural errors, but focusing on the lack of reasoning provided by the judge and any inconsistencies with the best interests of the child could be key points.

It might be beneficial to consult with a family law attorney who can help you navigate these complexities and strengthen your case for appeal. They can also assist in drafting the motion for reconsideration and any other necessary documents.

I read that you can’t file a request for a statement of decision after the fact, and that it had to be before the court date in California family court?

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Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

In California family court, a request for a statement of decision typically needs to be made before the matter is submitted for decision, which usually means before the hearing concludes. However, the rules can vary depending on the specific circumstances of the case and the court’s procedures.

If you missed the opportunity to request a statement of decision before the hearing, it might limit your options for appeal based on the judge’s reasoning. Consulting with a family law attorney could provide more tailored advice and explore any other possible avenues for addressing your concerns.

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