[FL] Can a spouse waive their share of marital property in a divorce?

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You can definitely express your desire to walk away without claiming any assets. When you file for divorce, you can include a statement in your petition that you do not wish to claim any marital property. This can help clarify your intentions to the court. Florida’s equitable distribution statute, (FL Stat § 61.075), controls how a court divides marital assets when spouses do not agree, and it allows the spouses to settle distribution through a stipulation and agreement instead. The same statute treats the date a petition for dissolution is filed, or an earlier valid separation agreement, as the cutoff for classifying assets as marital.

Additionally, if both parties agree, you can draft a settlement agreement that outlines your decision to waive any claims to marital assets. This agreement can then be submitted to the court for approval. Florida provides Supreme Court approved forms for this, such as the Marital Settlement Agreement for Simplified Dissolution of Marriage, Form 12.902(f)(3). Couples with no minor or dependent children who have agreed on dividing their property may qualify for the simplified procedure under Florida Family Law Rule of Procedure 12.105.

Judges often respect the wishes of both parties if they are in agreement, so having a clear, documented agreement can be very helpful.

If you need more guidance on how to proceed, feel free to ask. I’m here to help!

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Florida law. Divorce. I don’t want anything “marital”, I just want is objectively mine.

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I understand that navigating a divorce can be challenging, especially when it comes to dividing assets. Can you tell me how long you have been married?

Legally since 2016. Living together since 2006.

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Are there any specific assets or properties that you are particularly concerned about in this process?

One couch. And if i was being petty one $600 dryer.

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Is there anything else the Family Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with your divorce.

No.

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Hey there! Welcome to our service. I’m Ray, an attorney with many years of experience. Just so you are aware, our service is a legal information-only site. No attorney-client relationship is formed from our conversation. I understand you’re going through a divorce in Florida and want to ensure you keep only what’s objectively yours. Could you share more about any specific concerns or questions you have regarding this matter?

Based on your situation, there are several legal arguments and considerations in Florida that could potentially support your case:

In Florida, marital property is subject to equitable distribution during a divorce. This means that any assets acquired during the marriage are typically divided fairly, though not necessarily equally, between both parties. However, non-marital property, which includes assets acquired before the marriage or through inheritance or gift, is generally not subject to division.

Since you’ve been married since 2016 but living together since 2006, any assets acquired during the marriage period are likely considered marital property. However, items you owned prior to the marriage, like the couch and dryer if they were purchased before 2016, could be argued as non-marital property.

Florida law also considers the contribution of each spouse to the marriage, including homemaking and child-rearing, when dividing assets. This can influence what is deemed fair in terms of asset distribution.

Let me know if you have any questions or clarifications.

No. I would like to not claim anything and just leave. I do not want a court to force me into taking half his crap. I hate this house, and 90% of everything acquired after we were married I also do not want. We have 0 children. We have never shared a joint bank account. We have never filed joint taxes.

Also, we live in a small town, he and his father are prominent lawyers, so I am afraid to contact anyone locally.

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I understand your situation and your desire to leave without claiming any marital assets. Have you already filed for divorce, or are you planning to do so soon?

It appears that divorce filing is going to happen, who files first is a question, whether it is me filing or him. And I literally own nothing except my bank account, which is technically is owned by my bank. I am not planning to do so, but am seriously considering it.

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Got it. Are you planning to hire a lawyer to help with the divorce, or are you considering handling it on your own?

I am afraid of any attorneys here. We both work for the state. We live in a small town, his dad is prominent attorney/lawyer, he’s is connected with the courts. I work for the justice system. As such I know, self representation is terrible too.

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I understand your concerns about self-representation and the local legal environment. Here’s how you can approach your situation:

  1. Consider Filing for Divorce First Filing first can sometimes give you a strategic advantage, as it allows you to set the tone for the proceedings. If you choose to file, you can specify in your petition that you do not wish to claim any marital assets. This can help clarify your intentions from the start.
  2. Seek Legal Advice from Outside Your Area Given your concerns about local attorneys, consider reaching out to a lawyer from a different town or city. Many attorneys offer consultations over the phone or online, which can help you get the advice you need without involving local connections.
  3. Document Your Intentions Clearly Make sure to document your desire to leave without claiming assets. This can be done through a written agreement with your spouse or by clearly stating your intentions in any legal documents you file.
  4. Explore Mediation Mediation can be a less adversarial way to reach an agreement with your spouse. A neutral third party can help facilitate discussions and ensure that your wishes are respected without going to court.
  5. Prepare for Potential Challenges Given your spouse’s legal background, be prepared for any challenges that might arise. Having a clear, documented agreement and legal advice can help mitigate these challenges.

Please let me know if you have further questions.

I believe there would not be any serious problems. Given that I own nothing, aside from some belongings, I’m more interested in how legally separated works, because I have no where to go. If i try to buy a house, is that now a marital asset?

I don’t want a case. I just want to walk away. And since I own nothing, there’s literally nothing he can take from me. My clothes and there’s a handful of things that objectively my mother gifted me. I don’t even care about keeping/taking things we acquired together. I’m seriously concerned about finding someone who doesn’t know his family, and being able to not have the court “award” me half his shit that I don’t want.

I asked about legal separation, and because i have no where to go, if purchasing a house would count as a marital asset he could take from me.

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In Florida, there is no legal status of “legal separation” as recognized in some other states. However, you can live separately and still be married until the divorce is finalized.

Regarding purchasing a house, if you buy a property after filing for divorce, it is generally considered separate property, especially if you use your own funds. However, it’s crucial to document everything clearly and consult with a lawyer to ensure it’s protected as separate property.

If you have more questions or need further clarification, feel free to ask!

So file first, then “maybe” a purchase after that date won’t be considered “marital”? We have never shared a bank account, and never filed taxes jointly.

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Yes, filing for divorce first can help establish a clear separation date. In Florida, assets acquired after the filing date are generally considered separate property, especially if they are purchased with your own funds and not commingled with marital assets.

Since you have never shared a bank account or filed taxes jointly, this can further support the argument that the purchase is separate. However, it’s always a good idea to consult with a lawyer to ensure everything is properly documented and protected.

How costly and annoying will it be to try to find a lawyer that isn’t in this small town where everyone (including judges) knows him and his dad? He literally works with [redacted: spouse’s professional connections]...

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I understand your concern about finding a lawyer outside your small town. It can be challenging, but here are a few steps you can take:

  1. Search Online: Look for family law attorneys in nearby cities or towns. Many lawyers offer consultations over the phone or online, which can help you avoid local connections.
  2. Check Reviews and Credentials: Look for attorneys with good reviews and credentials. This can help you find someone reputable and experienced.
  3. Ask for Referrals: If you have friends or family outside your town, ask if they can recommend a lawyer.
  4. Contact the Florida Bar Association: They can provide referrals to attorneys who practice in your area of need and are not connected to your town.
  5. Consider Larger Firms: Larger law firms often have attorneys who work in multiple locations and can provide the expertise you need without local ties.

Finding the right lawyer might take some time, but it’s important to ensure you have someone who can represent your interests impartially. Let me know if you need more guidance!

I guess you probably can’t answer that... looks like I'm stuck in an impossible situation. I’m sorry I may have come off as angry...

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I completely understand your frustration, and I’m really sorry you’re feeling stuck. It’s a tough situation, but please know that you’re not alone in this. If there’s anything else I can do to help or any other questions you have, feel free to ask. I’m here to support you in any way I can.

It just doesn’t seem possible to find someone with no conflicts that isn’t 5 hours away. I apologize if I came off as angry at you, I’m just frustrated.

Thank you for your time. I’m sorry to have bothered you at this hour.

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You’re not bothering me at all, and there’s no need to apologize. I completely understand your frustration, and I’m here to help in any way I can. If you ever need more guidance or just someone to talk to about your situation, feel free to reach out. Take care, and I wish you the best in finding a resolution that works for you.

I appreciate your time. But i do not have any family - they all live outside the US. I cannot go back. I don’t even own a car. And I don’t want anything to do with this house. I have a dog and a cat that are only what i would fight to keep... I could care less about anything else.

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I understand how overwhelming this must feel, and I’m really sorry you’re going through such a tough time. It’s completely understandable to feel this way, especially when you’re trying to protect what’s most important to you, like your pets. If there’s anything specific you need help with or any questions you have, please don’t hesitate to ask. I’m here to support you in any way I can.

Honestly, I just want to walk away with nothing. And he’s holding over my head that the court will force me to take half his stuff that i don’t want... I have a great job. we don’t comingle finances, so if can get a mortgage, I think i would be fine. But i don’t want to take his house, i just want to walk away. Can I file something that says that? And maybe a sympathetic judge will grant it?

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You can definitely express your desire to walk away without claiming any assets. When you file for divorce, you can include a statement in your petition that you do not wish to claim any marital property. This can help clarify your intentions to the court. Florida’s equitable distribution statute, (FL Stat § 61.075), controls how a court divides marital assets when spouses do not agree, and it allows the spouses to settle distribution through a stipulation and agreement instead. The same statute treats the date a petition for dissolution is filed, or an earlier valid separation agreement, as the cutoff for classifying assets as marital.

Additionally, if both parties agree, you can draft a settlement agreement that outlines your decision to waive any claims to marital assets. This agreement can then be submitted to the court for approval. Florida provides Supreme Court approved forms for this, such as the Marital Settlement Agreement for Simplified Dissolution of Marriage, Form 12.902(f)(3). Couples with no minor or dependent children who have agreed on dividing their property may qualify for the simplified procedure under Florida Family Law Rule of Procedure 12.105.

Judges often respect the wishes of both parties if they are in agreement, so having a clear, documented agreement can be very helpful.

If you need more guidance on how to proceed, feel free to ask. I’m here to help!

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